Here are some life lessons I have learned from this first season of calving as a couple.
1) The ones you work the hardest to save are the ones you lose. Truth. Anyone who has worked with livestock will attest to that.
2) Being surrounded by life and baby animals – don’t be surprised if the subject of little ones comes up. If it does – do not be offended if your spouse relates everything back to cattle terminology and crack jokes about first time heifers and mothering up.
3) Pick your battles. Calving is stressful. The nights are long and the spouses get grumpy. They are not mad at you – just frustrated.
4) The laundry will pile up and your house will smell like a barn. In times like these I find solace in scented candles and scrubbing bubbles
5) You will get a call from the barn from your spouse in a huff demanding you to come out RIGHT NOW to help him. I learned the hard way not to wear gym shorts in January. Lesson – dress as if you may have to go outside in a pinch no matter the weather.
6) Coveralls don’t make bad Christmas gifts and it’s hard to beat a solid pair of boots.
7) Alone time can prevent many a fight.
8) Mud and mean cows will always be your enemy.
9) Working together and praying together will make your relationship stronger.
10) Don’t forget to make time for each other. Have a special supper, rent a movie, and make breakfast together.
Happy Trails and Happy Calving!